There really isn’t one education system which fits all. As such our sizes and shapes, our ability to learn and passion differs pretty much the same.
I still remember, my brother has loved playing with computers since the day my parents brought home one. He dismantled our microwave oven, he installed a doorbell for his room, he got himself a Nokia N-GAGE while I was raving for some slider phone and some never ending other things.
While I was a higher academic achiever than him, he excelled in something that was not a hype back then. He was constantly compared in terms of academic achievements. I thought he was not affected by it because he lived his life as if nothing really happened. Until one day, when he collected his SPM’s results and I saw his teary eyes. He did badly for one of the subjects and I couldn’t think of a way to cheer him up because the brother that I knew had always been cheerful, strong-headed and proof against naysayers.
Years after, he is now happy with his work. He has finally found a place where his passion and expertise are well-recognised and highly appreciated. I am happy for him.
I had a thought, if my brother were to be borne in today’s generation, would he be saved from being compared and would his talent be recognised and groomed so much earlier? That is likely the case.
Today, everything is about technology advancement. The better you are at learning the software algorithm, the smarter people would see you. If you could get your hands on coding and software development, you are off to great things. These are some of my brother’s talents that I wish I have.
I realise that what the society regards as “successful” merely is an indication of what the society needs. 20 years ago, the needs for programmer was not as crucial and thus, children with such talent are often underestimated. Now that the world is moving towards everything digital, these children who are now adults are the ones thriving.
An important reminder to me and the expecting parents, never belittle your child’s talent and interest. God has made us unique and that is for us to celebrate.
Till then, may peace be upon you.
Bits of Alya 